In short
A reverse mortgage is a loan for homeowners 62 and older that turns part of your home equity into cash. You keep the title, you keep living in the home, and you make no monthly mortgage payment. The loan is repaid when the last borrower sells, moves out, or passes away. Most are Home Equity Conversion Mortgages (HECMs), which are insured by the FHA.
Reviewed by Emmett Dempsey, NMLS #208522 · Last updated July 24, 2026
Isn't a reverse mortgage a scam?
No. Here's the thing. A HECM reverse mortgage is FHA-insured and federally regulated, and you are required to sit through independent, third-party counseling before you can even apply. You keep the title to your home the whole time. It is a real loan with real rules, and it is genuinely the wrong move for some people. My job is to tell you honestly which group you're in, not to talk you into it.
Key takeaways
A lot of folks on the Treasure Coast are what I call house rich and cash poor. They own a home worth a lot of money, often paid off or close to it, but the monthly income is tight. A reverse mortgage is one tool to fix that. I've done these for clients, and I did one for my own mom, so let's break that down: the good, the rules, and the trade-offs.
How a reverse mortgage actually works
Here's the math, in plain terms. You've built up equity in your home over the years. A reverse mortgage lets you pull some of that equity out as cash, based on your age, your home's value, and current lending limits. Instead of you paying the lender every month, the balance grows a little over time, and it gets paid off later when you sell, move out, or pass away. That's the whole idea. You stop sending a mortgage payment and start using the money your house has been sitting on.
The three ways to take your money
You don't have to grab it all at once. So what does that mean for you? You've got options:
- A line of credit. You leave the money available and pull from it only when you need it. This is the one I like most for a lot of people, because the unused portion can grow over time.
- Monthly payments. The loan pays you a set amount every month, which turns your equity into steady income.
- A lump sum. You take it all up front. Sometimes that's the right call, often it isn't. We'll talk through it.
Most people end up somewhere in between. Does that make sense so far?
What you still have to do
This is the part people gloss over, so I won't. A reverse mortgage does not mean the house takes care of itself. You still have to:
- Live in the home as your primary residence.
- Keep your property taxes paid.
- Keep homeowners insurance in force.
- Keep the home in reasonable repair.
Miss those and you can put the loan in default, same as any mortgage. If you can comfortably handle taxes, insurance, and upkeep, you're fine. If those are already a stretch, that's an honest conversation we need to have first.
What happens to the house when I'm gone
This is the question that scares families, and the answer is better than most people expect. When the last borrower passes away or moves out for good, your heirs have choices. They can sell the home, pay off the balance, and keep whatever equity is left. They can keep the home and pay off the loan (often by refinancing). Or, if the home is worth less than the balance, they can hand it back and walk away owing nothing. That's what non-recourse means. Your kids never inherit a bill. Bottom line: the home secures the loan, your family doesn't.
Who it's right for, and who it isn't
I'll be straight with you. A reverse mortgage is a great fit for a homeowner who's staying put, has real equity, and wants to stop making a mortgage payment or add income in retirement. It's the wrong fit for someone who plans to move in a few years, wants to leave the house free and clear to their kids no matter what, or is already struggling to cover taxes and insurance. Both answers are fine. I did this for my own mom because it was right for her. I've also told plenty of people it wasn't right for them.
Your rate and your numbers
Every reverse mortgage is priced to the person: your age, your home's value, and the market that day. That's why I don't post a number here. Reach out and I'll run your actual figures, walk you through the counseling step, and show you exactly what it looks like for your home.
Quick facts
- Minimum age
- 62 or older (all borrowers on title)
- Most common type
- Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM), FHA-insured
- Monthly mortgage payment
- None required
- Who holds title
- You do, the whole time
- Still your responsibility
- Property taxes, homeowners insurance, upkeep, living there
- Repayment
- When the last borrower sells, moves out, or passes away
- Counseling
- Independent HUD-approved counseling required before you apply
Is this loan right for you?
Who it's for
- Homeowners 62 and older with significant equity who plan to stay in the home.
- People who are house rich and cash poor and want to free up their money.
- Retirees who want to eliminate a monthly mortgage payment.
- Seniors who want to age in place and add income without selling.
Who it may not fit
- Homeowners planning to sell or move in the next few years.
- People whose top goal is leaving the home free and clear to their heirs.
- Anyone already struggling to keep up with property taxes and insurance.
- Homeowners under 62.
Pros and cons
Pros
- No monthly mortgage payment for as long as you live in the home.
- You keep the title and stay in your home.
- Non-recourse: you and your heirs never owe more than the home's value.
- Flexible ways to take the money: line of credit, monthly income, or lump sum.
- FHA-insured and federally regulated, with required counseling built in.
Trade-offs to weigh
- The loan balance grows over time instead of shrinking.
- It reduces the equity you leave to your heirs.
- You still have to keep up taxes, insurance, and upkeep.
- There are upfront costs, so it's not built for a short-term stay.
Frequently asked questions
Do I still own my home?
Yes. You keep the title and you stay on it the whole time. The lender does not own your home. A reverse mortgage is a loan against your equity, not a sale of your house.
Can the bank take my house?
Not as long as you hold up your end: live there, keep the taxes and insurance paid, and keep the home in reasonable shape. Those are the same responsibilities you have as any homeowner. Meet them and the home is yours.
Will my kids get stuck with the debt?
No. When the loan comes due, your heirs can sell and keep the leftover equity, keep the home by paying off the balance, or hand it back and owe nothing. Because it's non-recourse, they never owe more than the home is worth. Your family never inherits a bill.
Do I have to take all the money at once?
No. You can set it up as a line of credit you draw from as needed, as monthly payments to you, as a lump sum, or a mix. For a lot of people the line of credit is the smartest structure. We'll pick the one that fits your goal.
What will my rate be?
It depends on your age, your home's value, and the market that day, so I don't post a number here. Reach out and I'll run your real figures and walk you through exactly what your reverse mortgage would look like.
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Last updated July 24, 2026 · Reviewed by Emmett Dempsey, NMLS #208522. This page is educational and not a commitment to lend; program details change — ask for current figures.